If you're not all-in say no
Figure out what’s core to your identity, the things you’re truly passionate about, and dive into them head-first.
If an opportunity inspires genuine excitement in you, whether it’s at work, in your personal life or anywhere else, then dive in 100 percent and don’t look back.
But if that spark isn’t there, even if you’re pretty excited about it, it’s a no.
The binary here is a little dramatic, sure, but the lesson is crucial: If you don’t love it, don’t do it.
Inspired by: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/02/26/smarter-living/if-its-not-a-100-yes-its-a-no.html